الأحد، 24 فبراير 2013

الإعجاز العلمي والمبالغات التي أدت لخفوت الفائدة منه

  الإعجاز موجود وراق ، لكن المبالغة كما تفضلتم والتكلف صيرا الأمر مشوها، وهذا يرجع لخطأ من المتخصصين الذين شابهوا من وضعوا الأحاديث في المكذوبة في فضائل كل سورة من سور القرآن قديما، ثم تأثموا في آخر عمرهم وتابوا وأعلنوا ....لكونهم أدركوا أن النية الصالحة لا تصحح العمل الفاسد ولا يبارك فيه بالتدليس أو الخوض بغير علم أو الكذب أو التساهل دون تبيين......وبعضهم خطفته فتنة الأضواء ثم اتسع أمره جدا أكبر من حجمه العلمي، حتى صار مسكنا يستعمله الطغاة كإسلام هادئ وأنيق لا يتحدث فيما يضايق، ثم صاروا يستفتونه في كل شيء كأنه موسوعي إسلامي ويتكلم دون أهلية بكل أسف في كل القضايا متكئا على شهرته، والشق الثاني هو الفرد المتلقي الذي غالبا-إلا من رحم الله- لم يؤسس تأسيسا علميا وعقليا صحيحا، لا في المدرسة ولا في البيت أو المسجد أو الإعلام والثقافة...فلم يرب-إلا قليلا- ليحلل وينقد ويبحث علميا وعالميا عن الرأي الآخر ويتوسع ليدقق، أو يرد ويفند ويسأل ويتمحص ويراجع، بل يسير خلف أي بريق إعلامي ، وأي عاطفة جياشة، وأي ذكاء متوسط يقفل القضية من كل وجه ظاهريا...

الثلاثاء، 19 فبراير 2013

Is It The Heart Which You Are Asking?


Is It The Heart Which You Are Asking?
 w_sweetroseBy: Dr. Islam Sobhi Al-Mazeny






























Dedicated to a Better Tomorrow







































To a relative….

When she wanted to commit suicide, she wanted to quit a depressing life and false hopes. She went through a personal and general depression!!!
Praise Be To Allah; His Peace and Blessings upon His Messenger Mohammad?

This was the dialogue that really took place:
My relative wanted to commit suicide because of the prevalent depressing social environment full of moral and spiritual decadence.

Why don’t people just kill themselves? Do they think on their own? What is in life that is worth to be living!




















 Oh, is it the heart you ask about? There is nothing in this world which is equal to human feelings. They are priceless.

Money cannot buy love and definitely cannot make up for it. Even if one wishes to sell ones own feelings, it would be impossible. One can hide them, can tolerate suffering and sacrifice, can pretend to love but to put a price on true love, certainly no.!

Feeling is a fine aspect of life. Allah created it to be above selling or buying otherwise, life will worth nothing to death. Only life does bear meanings that are dearer than the material aspects, even dearer than the life itself. It is for no question worth living.

As for those meanings, on top of it is the love of Allah, the Greatest, the only Creator; praise be upon Him! Just a minute!

I’m telling you, don’t be bored, why do people get bore of such love and take for granted as if it is just redundant? Just to preach? You don’t know what love is really about, you don’t know who your Creator is? You do not understand this life properly. You have nothing but trivialities… even less!! A little knowledge, a shallow understanding… channels, cultures, bits and pieces that hardly weigh more than a mosquito’s wing weighs!

Perhaps you’ll take my words as repetitive … but you will never really grasped the soul of life, the depth of the culture… do you understand what I am trying to elaborate?

You can only relate to what I say if you know two things:

Getting knowledge from the correct sources and getting an insight from the Al-Mighty, the Most Knowing. From those points on, you are free. You don’t thank anyone for God’s words but Allah Almighty. His words are the 'food' of your heart and soul!!

You will acquire the true love of Allah when you know His Names; Glory be to Him, His deeds… do you really know the true meanings of all of His names? Can you understand the meanings? Only then, the love of Allah will come to your heart and bless you….

When you realize what the world is really about, how the universe goes around scientifically, socially and mentally, you are not just a recipient but a thinker with a living mind of your own; and when you realize the vast seas of darkness and the light of truth, when your knowledge is not merely for personal interest, not cold and pointless, but  knowledge embodied by the fear and sense of Allah, the theory plus the practice (belief and the practice), not to be memorized only, but a warm deep knowledge… only then you will be able to feel the blessings of Allah in everything…only then you will know what love is really about? The love of Allah is the love that has true meaning, that is priceless and life is nothing without it!

Those who really grasp the essence of the love of Allah are the scientists. They are able to deeply know Allah through His creation so they become the most fearful and most loving of Him, Glory be to Him. Those who do not know Him are the most miserable. They are the ones who have gone astray. Their hearts never really knew Allah....

Let your heart be opened entirely and sincerely to its Creator and let it be blessed with the love of His Messenger as well. Love is an action rather than just talk.

The true believers are those who can really comprehend the great issue of pure love to Allah to the extent of giving away the souls for Him only

The following are the love of those who believe in the Oneness of Allah and love Him solely

The love of ones own parents would come after, and such love is instinctive, otherwise mothers would have left their babies to die for the comfort of their own bodies…. But Allah created them to be their offspring and be patient to raise them no matter how weak they felt.

There is a great love also for the spouse, a very positive love, especially if it is for the right person! Such love is indispensable for the peace of mind and the lasting of the human race. It is crucial for enduring life and overlooking mutual mistakes…otherwise such partners would not have been able to put up with each other.

The love of good doing is another fine aspect of love. It is a great thing to give people what compassion and mercy they truly need and to like doing good for them. Hatred is only for the evil doers who deny the right of their Creator upon them. Those are unworthy of peace or love. Yet, we as believers should wish them to be guided towards the truth. The believers are the ones filled with feelings of sincerity towards the world, not the misguided empty hearted people!

You might still be wondering what is all this talk about? And why? I wish to show you what the real believers should have to feel content and secure. We just need to be patient. Our first step in this path is abiding by our Holy Book the Qur'aan. Then we have the sayings of His Prophet, may peace be upon him.

We enjoin the love of our Creator, the Only True Creator! He is our best company. People can give up on us but not Him !Angels will then be praying and accompanying us if only our hearts are truly devoted, all our deeds and sayings should be entirely for the sake of Allah, only when we know who our Creator really is that we will find the true meaning of  life and happiness.

It would be a treasure we must be very grateful for and to always praise Allah. Praising Him encompasses thanking. Not just the spoken words but it is interpreted through actionsWe are asked to get closer to Allah in order to know Him better. We are asked to worship more sincerely and Allah will help us so we can deeply understand.

Through hope and prayers, giving and good doing (set forth by Qur'aan and Sunnah); through comprehensive knowledge that should lead to the knowing of the Creator; what He wants from and for us; what makes Him angry; or how He had the whole universe; and who we are: what are our roles and to where are we heading to?; what should be our destiny? How will life matters work? To know instead of being ignorant and arrogant! Then through all that, we will be enlightened just like a full moon in the night of a spring time with stars shining all around. Such a vision will uplift our soul and grant the heart its peace and purity.

Life will be tolerable no matter of all the hardships. However our lives might seem limited and filled with obstacles to some. We can go through it with confidence and contended hearts. We are totally engaged with working for the life after rather than this one only …Paradise is the reward in the hereafter. It is where we will find our beloved ones and our blessings

We will keep hoping and trying always to be the best and never feel despair… The Prophet went ahead of us. He suffered a lot in this life. He was once granted lot of money but gave it all away and went back to his home. He would just devote his life and soul for his Creator awaiting the greatest reward! The hope and blessing of getting a look at the Al-Mighty Allah in the life after is the best that any believer can wish for!

The Prophet was always with Allah in his heart and mind. He understood, the enemy, Quraysh (his own tribe who opposed his mission) did not bother him. Neither the Romans nor the fear or hunger would make him gave up! He is only occupied with one thing, Allah is pleased with him! Allah, is the Creator of Heavens and earth, who controls everything, is the only one that the Prophet really loved. The pleasing of Allah is the Mohammad utmost mission. The price is undoubtedly Paradise!

He once turned down all proposals and temptations from his uncle. Not if they put the sun in my right hand and the moon in my left hand, "I’ll still not give up on this faith", he said! He is away high up there now, can you understand that?

Life is but a journey. We choose our way by ourselves. We make our choices of immortality. Would that be a loss? So let it be! Let us lose then! The wise is being the patient and the thankful! Thus one would happily pass away and hope to be resurrected and shaded with the Al-Mighty shade of His Throne.

The losers are the ones who read the Qur'aan without a proper understanding of the meanings of the words. Those are the people who cannot help themselves. A person with a sound mind can realize where the ship of rescue is and seek for it! The wise is the one who can tell who are the right followers and the misguided ones. Those who do not know what are the meanings of the Names of Allah and feel the beauty of them; they are the deprived ones! They do not know how to learn from the history; to think about the world around and read more insightfully.

They were deprived from realizing Allah’s greatness and His Mighty company.

They came into this world and will depart with absolutely nothing!


What a shame!!!             


Health IN MARRIAGE


Health IN MARRIAGE.TEXT FORM

Health

IN

MARRIAGE



By

Dr. Islam Al-Mazeny







HEALTH IS DEFINED AS :


“HEALTH IS A STATE OF PHYSICAL, MENTAL AND SOCIAL TRANQUILITY AND NOT JUST FREE FROM ILLNESS OR WEAKNESS”
World Health Organization (WHO)

ISLAMIC VIEW OF HEALTH



Health is not just a state of physical, mental and social tranquility but also of spiritual peace and free from illness and injury.

Meaning:



“Healthy and constructive mind comes only from healthy body”.



FACTORS AFFECTING FAMILY HEALTH

• Life Style

• Genetic and hereditary

• Family structure

HEALTHY LIVING



• Balanced Diet

• Restricted socializing

? Avoid random sex

? Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, C, HIV

• Healthy daily habits

? Healthy surrounding and work place

• Avoid drugs, cigarettes, liquor

HIV/AIDS



o Ways of spreading:

o Having sex with infected person

o Contaminated needle

o HIV mother to carrying baby

o Have blood test for those exposed to risk

o Avoid infecting other members of family

o Get help from hospital/clinic

o Examination, medical treatment, counseling

GOOD MENTAL HEALTH PRACTICES FOR FAMILY



o Helping each other in daily activities

o Allocating time wisely for family

o Practice religious values in family

o Give attention to children’s mixing, know their friends

o Take part in children’s activities

o Mutual respect and understanding among family members

o Knowing each others capabilities and appreciating them

GENETIC FACTORS



o Baby born may be infected by disease difficult to cure

Example: thallasemia, Epilepsy, Asthma, Madness



Avoid marrying:

o Close relative

o Person infected by genetically transmitted disease

o Genetic counseling and acceptance to Allah’s will

FAMILY STRUCTURING



o Allah encourages marriage and having offspring

o Children should be treated with love and care and given proper education



Arranging family by:

o Planning the space in child birth

ADVANTAGE OF FAMILY PLANNING



o Minimize mortality of mother and child

o Ensure health of mother and child

o Enables mother to space out pregnancy at safe intervals

o Avoid unwanted childbirth

o Avoid abortion

o Getting counselling assistance for unhealthy parents

PRAGNENCY AND CHILDBIRTH



o Physical maturity

o Age not less than 18

? Psychological changes

? Delivery process

o Above 40 years of age

? Risk to mother and baby

PREGNANCY AND CHILDBIRTH



o Avoid disease

o Infectious disease

o Noninfectious disease

o Care and examination while conceiving

o Visiting schedule

o Signs of pregnancy

o Problems during pregnancy

PREGNANCY AND DELIVERY



o Food

o Not excessive/not too little

o Safe delivery

o By trained staff

o In hospital for first child

o Myths and do’s and don’ts

BABY CARE



• Immunization for baby

o Diseases that can be avoided through immunization

o Types of immunization

o Time table for immunization

• Breastfeeding

• Good for baby

• Benefit to mother

FAMILY PLANNING METHODS

• Family Planning Pills

• Hormone injection

• Hormone implants

• Condom & IUD



PERIODIC MEDICAL EXAMINATION

• To evaluate health condition

• Free from disease

• Trace disease from early stage

BENEFITS OF HEALTH CARE IN THE FAMILY



• To ensure happiness and harmony in the family

• Avoid divorce as a result of health reasons

• Able to undertake responsibility well.